"Communication works for those who work at it."

It is easy to agree that communication is in so many ways the way to open minds, the way to connect, the way to change the world in a positive way. What is often forgotten is how difficult communication really is, and how much patience and work goes into communicating well. At Schmooz, it is a core value of ours to listen and respond. Getting excited about an idea is not enough alone. I could talk all day and all night, but I have learned that listening to what people say and watching for what people don't say is as important or more important than responding. Really hearing people and effectively talking together is what makes for good communication and genuine connections. Here's what I try to remember:

1. Do a mental check point about what you already know about that person before you start speaking. Do they come from a different academic or religious background than you? Are they older or younger than you? Knowing that your point of view is not the only one makes a profound difference when you communicate with people.

2. Be proud of what makes you excited, be proud of what makes you unique. Being aware of the weight of your words in the context of a conversation is vital, but pretending to be someone you are not, will not make a relationship - personal or professional - any easier. Don't apologize for who you are, but also try not to make someone feel bad for having a different point of view or idea.

3. You don't have to know everything. Be honest with yourself and with others, be upfront about what you value.

I cannot claim that my communication is always perfect. Life is exciting because we are always learning and growing. Schmooz as a company values listening to what people say, responding thoughtfully and genuinely and making great things happen together.

Have a wonderful weekend!

- Zoe Share, Chief Executive Schmoozer